Posted 2 days ago

Look around your college classroom, spot the virgins.

See, this seems like a game until you skip over the girl with a short skirt and hair in front of her eyes because you heard last summer that she slept with like nineteen guys. You can’t see her hands, but they’re under the table, pulling a rosary through her fingers as she tries to wash the sin off her. She’s only ever kissed three people in her whole life and they’re all girls. She turned down the wrong guy and he told everyone she’s “a whore.” The label “slut” stuck to the bottom of her shoe and swallowed her up.

But that quiet girl who is always reading probably never touched someone else’s penis, you figure, because you don’t know that she goes home and strips down and pulls on tight black leather, you don’t know she’s got a set of whips that could make any set of knees quiver, you don’t know because she’s proud of what she does but she’s not stupid enough to let anyone know about it. She’s sexy, just not here, not where people judge.

See, the truth is: you have no idea who has lost their virginity, because it doesn’t change you. It doesn’t give you some kind of glow or superpower or stamp on your forehead. You know the feeling of waking up on your birthday and thinking “I don’t feel any older whatsoever”? That’s what maybe they’re all so afraid of you finding out: sex doesn’t change you. Sex doesn’t make you an animal, sex doesn’t suddenly make your relationship a million times more stable or intimate or romantic - it can’t fix what’s broken, although it can make the pain go away for a bit. Sex doesn’t really occur with eighty tea lights and a thick white rug. Sex is ugly and loud and frequently awkward, sex is excellent and breathtaking and when you wake up the next morning, you’re the exact same person. There’s not some magical connection with the person in bed beside you. Believe it or not, pregnancy isn’t some kind of punishment - but practice safe sex, get tested, don’t spread your germs around. They want to tell you, “Sex can ruin you” and I’ve heard that a lot as a little girl, that some boy would join me under my sheets and then dump me four days after, used, unhappy.

But I figured out that I’m not a fucking toy. Letting someone have sex with me is not letting them “use” me, because I’m not an object. My father said the issue lay in the fact “Men are insecure and need to know that they’re the best you ever had,” but I think that’s a steaming crock of absolute-wrong and if I didn’t tell the people I’m with how many others I’d slept beside, there would be literally no way for them to know my number, because I don’t rust, I don’t wear out, I don’t get bruised. I’m not a wilting fruit, I don’t go rotten.

But here’s the thing: some people connect sex and emotion. I don’t personally because I am probably secretly an ice storm in disguise, but I still respect my partner’s desires. If they’re the type to want love and sex to coincide, I let them. I don’t make fun, I don’t pull one-night-stands or friends-with-benefits, because it’s not their “reputation” I’m afraid for: it’s their heart I’m defending.

Here’s the thing: Instead of worrying about people’s “purity” and how it defines them as a person, worry instead about how you can protect other people’s emotions.

Because here’s the thing: look around your room and spot the virgins. Look harder. You can’t tell. Sex doesn’t alter people, it doesn’t make them act in a certain way nor dress in a certain manner. Sex and personality have nothing to do with each other. There’s a reason that virginity doesn’t show on someone’s face: because having sex doesn’t cause you to change.

"I lost my virginity to a boy I didn’t even love…" /// r.i.d (via i-blame-reagan)
Posted 2 days ago
fucktheflagandfuckyou:

vergess:

weenierenegades:

medusahorror:

if you don’t know this is from a game, don’t reblog it.

Because you’re not allowed to enjoy creative, smooth animation. How dare you reblog a thing.

You know what would be a thousand times more helpful than being a game snob?
“So this piece of animation is from a really cool game called LIMBO and you should check it out!”


Honestly this game is my fucking favorite Also there’s a sequel coming out so there’s that

fucktheflagandfuckyou:

vergess:

weenierenegades:

medusahorror:

if you don’t know this is from a game, don’t reblog it.

Because you’re not allowed to enjoy creative, smooth animation. How dare you reblog a thing.

You know what would be a thousand times more helpful than being a game snob?

So this piece of animation is from a really cool game called LIMBO and you should check it out!”

Honestly this game is my fucking favorite

Also there’s a sequel coming out so there’s that

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Posted 2 days ago

scaredofcannon:

alteara-havenwic:

professorfangirl:

venivincere:

spevvy:

destinedforjohnlock:

john-without-a-holmes:

are you fucking kidding me.

well hello

I have no idea who this is or what the hell is going on but I feel I ought to reblog it because it looks scientifically important.

He’s fucking his jeans. That’s what he’s doing.

denimsexual

I’m…. reblogging this for the comments.

sure you are

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Posted 2 days ago

Hey Theodore Roosevelt, remember that time someone tried to assassinate you, but you just laughed and proceeded to give a 90-minute long speech with the bullet lodged in your lung, where it remained for the rest of your life? Or when you tore up your leg after being thrown into piranha-infested waters while exploring uncharted Brazil? Or all those times you broke your ribs from falling off horses while doing badass jumps? Or when you destroyed the sight in your left eye in a White House boxing match? Or that time you killed a cougar in a knife fight (seriously)? And how the only way death could finally get to you was in your sleep, in the early morning on January 6th in 1919. Here’s to TR as the infinite inspiration for pure, condensed badassery.

fuckyeahhistorycrushes:

alexandraplumpkin:

furnweh:

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Theodore Roosevelt, October 27, 1858 – January 6, 1919

“Death had to take him sleeping, for if Roosevelt had been awake there would have been a fight.”

Original Badass.

All of our presidents combined can’t add up to how much of a badass he was.

TR Appreciation Post ‘12

Not to mention he was an attractive mother fucker.

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Posted 2 days ago

speghan77:

victory-sashes:

FUCK I JUST SPAT OUT MY FUCKING RAMEN

How weird that this has so many notes, because when I screen shot it and posted it when it showed up on MY dash no one liked it. But when some fuck steals my picture it’s so popular.

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Posted 2 days ago

coelasquid:

coelasquid:

Cool little kickstarter that doesn’t seem to be getting a lot of attention;

Grave, “an open-world, surrealist survival horror experience where light is your only weapon in a constantly changing reality.” As it’s described, Grave is a survival horror made with the goal to allow players to explore the world in the way that best suits their own tastes. They have described the elements populating the world as having “multiple ways to interact with them” to allow bold adventurers to run off into the night and face the creatures face to face, and cautious survivalists to hole up in bunkers at night to wait out the monster onslaught. The developers describe their world as Dali-inspired, and explain that it physically transforms overnight to make every day a unique experience. Your character is never equipped with a gun or melee weapon, instead having to rely on flashlights, matches, gasoline, and firecrackers to combat the light and sound-sensitive monsters populating the world. Ripples in the landscape create misplaced patches of city, forest, oasis, or spawn strange artifacts. The story is described as procedural, leaving the player to explore the world to gather clues to what exactly is going on while they forage for supplies to survive.

They’re only about 1/6th of the way to full funding with 19 days left to go, a pledge as low as $10 can get you a copy of the game’s story mode, it could be worth checking out if you like horror games.

Oh wow this kickstarter really started picking up steam! Six days to go and $9000 to raise! They might make it after all!

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Posted 2 days ago

Anything on his collar?
     Collar says it’s “Arrow”.
Ehn. I’ll come up with something better.

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Posted 2 days ago
I just want to pour my soul out on someone and not have to worry about the mess I’ve made.
Andrea Slicker (via kittensandcoffins)

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Posted 2 days ago

delladilly:

i don’t want to be a boy or a girl i want to be a small cluster of stars